About this Blog: In considering complaints regarding my Blog Post #3, I have several thoughts: 1. What I have to write is COMPLETELY DEPENDENT upon describing how my experiences created my point of view, and so it is difficult to universally navigate this territory and honor all parties who read it. I am trying to do right by my own experience, but also by my friends for whom these experiences are related to their experiences, where we intersect. While I will always keep anonymity for the folks of whom I write, I will also employ the following rule when writing my blog: if a friend, (not someone who does not identify as friend,) feels that I have inappropriately represented them, I will change the blog. If non-friends have complaints, they can talk to me about their concerns, but I do not reflexively promise to change what was written. Articulating my experience is not more important than the people whom I love, but it is bigger, for me, than the hurt feelings of fol